How to Lead Your Family: A Guide for Men Wanting to Be More (Beeke)

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Description

The Good News? You’d die for your wife and kids.
The Bad News? That’s the easy part.

Being a godly husband and father isn’t about one big heroic moment—it’s about showing up every day. You need a simple, biblical plan to help you stay faithful in the daily grind of leading your family.

This short, practical guide unpacks how Jesus’ ministry should shape our leadership at home. With Christ-centered encouragement and no-nonsense wisdom, Joel Beeke challenges us to step up to God’s calling—while reminding us to rest in the finished work of Christ alone.

Straightforward and full of real-world lessons, How to Lead Your Family: A Guide for Men Wanting to be More sets high standards. But it also gives us the biblical foundation, encouragement, and practical advice we need to pursue those standards. Read it, and prayerfully lift your entire family through steady, loving leadership.

Contents

Introduction

1. A Prophet in the Home
2. A Priest in the Home
3. A King in the Home

Conclusion
Notes

Endorsements

“This book is a masterpiece. Joel Beeke not only provides sound biblical teaching about being a father, he also gives us a simple and practical framework for reminding us of our calling: prophet, priest, and king. Each of these perspectives on fatherhood is opened up and applied with clarity. If you want to understand fatherhood and its primary responsibilities from a biblical perspective, read this booklet, then share it with someone else.”
—Tedd Tripp, senior pastor of Grace Fellowship Church, Hazleton, Pennsylvania, and author of Shepherding a Child’s Heart

“The way to reform the church, transform the city, and alter the course of society is to spiritualize the home. Men are called to lead their families to know the true God and walk in His ways. In the present volume, Dr. Joel Beeke provides a thoroughly biblical and delightfully accessible study of what it means for a man to love his wife and sow the seeds of godliness in their children’s hearts.”
—J. Stephen Yuille, Professor of Church History, Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, Fort Worth, TX

“This brief work is a wonderful compendium on a man's duties to his wife and family. It is thoroughly biblical and born out of a deep and ancient Christian tradition that has shaped the author and made him a blessing to the church. Read it in one sitting, then read it over and over until you are shaped by it. Read it with your wife and petition her prayers on your behalf. Make it your companion and a constant reminder of your most sacred duties before God. Assimilate the biblical truths found in this book, and you will become an extraordinary blessing of Christ to your family.”
—Paul Washer, Missionary, author of The Preeminent Christ and The Gospel of Jesus Christ

“I have never met a genuinely Christian man who did not want to be better than he is. This is especially true of Christian husbands and fathers. I cannot think of a man more qualified by the Spirit’s anointing and sanctified experience to help men grow in their divinely assigned roles in the home. Following our great Mediator, Jesus Christ, Dr. Beeke provides practical counsel for Christian men to understand, embrace, and grow in our prophetic, priestly, and kingly responsibilities. This little book is powerful!”
—Dr. Tom Ascol, Pastor, Grace Baptist Church, President, Founders Ministries

“There can be little doubt that the church and the world today desperately need Christlike men who will heed the Lord’s call to faithfully lead their homes. In this wonderfully practical, Biblical, and inspirational book, Joel Beeke beckons us to fulfill that high calling for the glory of God.”
—George Grant, Pastor Emeritus, Parish Presbyterian Church, Franklin, TN

“What does loving your wife as Christ loved the church look like when you’re standing in front of the kitchen sink, leaving for a work trip, or putting your children to bed? By unpacking Jesus' threefold office of Prophet, Priest, and King, Joel Beeke opens the door to a wealth of practical advice and helps God-fearing men perform one of the most important jobs on earth.”
—David M. Cook, Pastor, Calvary Baptist Church; Greenwood, IN, faculty member at Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary.

“Besides my own parents, no one has taught me more about leading my family than Joel Beeke. How to Lead Your Family will give you access to countercultural family leadership mentoring that is instructive, convicting, and encouraging. The prophet-priest-king motif provides an excellent biblical vehicle for conveying strong and gracious truth, just the way men need it. Read and implement this Christ-centered, Spirit-reliant book, and you may well change your family history.”
—William Boekestein, Pastor Immanuel Fellowship Church; Kalamazoo, MI. He and his wife, Amy have four children.

“Men cannot be Christ for their families, but they are called to be like Christ and to point their loved ones to Him. This book might be one of the best guides on how to do just that. Concise, practical, and vintage Beeke—men can’t afford to miss out on this resource.”
—Jonathan Landry Cruse, husband, father, pastor, author

This book is a treasure! As a father raising children in today's complex world, I found Dr. Joel Beeke's "How to Lead Your Family" to be a transformative guide. His framework of reflecting Christ's threefold office as prophet, priest, and king has revolutionized how I teach, love, and guide my children. This book offers both the theological foundation and practical wisdom fathers desperately need.
—Jonny Ardavanis, pastor, Stonebridge Bible Church; author, Consider the Lilies

“Every generation of Christian men must face the question, 'How ought I to lead my wife and children within the home?’ It would be easy for modern men to scoff at the question and even easier for Christians to lament over past decades and centuries when families didn’t seem to have all the issues they have today. Joel Beeke, however, has done a great service in this little book, for he has provided Christian men with the tools necessary to lead their households unto the glory of God as prophets, priests, and kings by virtue of their union with Christ. I don’t merely commend it but implore Christian men to read it.”
—Jacob Tanner, Pastor of Christ Keystone Church

“In this excellent little book, Dr. Beeke has provided a short, muscular treatment of leadership in the home. Beeke offers a vision for godly leadership that is modeled on Christ in His offices as Prophet, Priest, and King. In an age in which men receive all kinds of confused messaging about what male leadership ought to be, here is a clear and compelling picture of leadership as God intended it."
—Alex DiPrima, PhD (SEBTS) has served as a pastor for several years and is the author of Spurgeon and the Poor and Spurgeon: A Life.

“Joel Beeke’s How to Lead Your Family is a much-needed, gospel-rich guide for Christian men seeking to shepherd their homes with purpose and humility. Drawing from Scripture and the Reformed tradition, Joel distills decades of pastoral wisdom into a brief yet powerful call to biblical manhood. I’m grateful for Joel’s clear voice and warm heart in this important resource.”
—Ligon Duncan, BA, MDiv, MA, PhD (Edin); Chancellor and CEO Reformed Theological Seminary

“This book is a timely call for Christian men to embrace their God-given role as prophet, priest, and king in the home. These chapters are saturated with Scripture, shaped by the gospel, and offer practical help for husbands and fathers who desire to lead their families with Christlike love, courage, and faithfulness.”
—Matthew Boswell, hymn-writer, pastor of The Trails Church, Celina, TX, Professor of Worship Ministries, Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, Kansas City, MO.

“Today, men don't know how to be men, and Christians don't know how to be Christian. So a book about how to be a Christian man is a much-needed resource. With his characteristic warmth, clarity, and faithfulness, Dr. Beeke uses this brief and wholesome work to teach husbands and fathers how to embody the fullness of Christ to their families, and minister to our suffering world.”
—Will Spencer, Host of The Will Spencer Podcast

About the Author

Joel R. Beeke is chancellor and professor of homiletics and systematic theology of Puritan Reformed Theological Seminary and a minister of the Heritage Reformed Congregation of Grand Rapids, Michigan.

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