Get Offa My Case: Godly Parenting of An Angry Teen (Horne)
This is a book about transformation — the transformation, sometimes sooner and sometimes later, of an angry, defiant teen. More immediately, though, it’s about transformation in that teen’s fearful, exasperated, and hurting parents. There is no silver bullet that will transform an angry teen into a respectful, responsible young adult. However, there is a God who can transform us, the way we parent and the atmosphere of our home. This book draws parents’ attention to their need to pursue and be satisfied with God’s glory, which in turn allows them to seek change in their teenager’s heart. It shows parents how to reestablish godly family leadership and helps them to find the joy of the Lord — even if their teen doesn’t change.
Table of Contents:
Part 1: Keeping Your Footing in Rough Waters
1. Keeping Your Footing as God's Glory Motivates You
2. Keeping Your Footing as God's Promises Encourage You
3. Keeping Your Footing as God's Word Instructs You
4. Keeping Your Footing as Prayer Positions You
Part 2: Shepherding Your Teen into Deep Waters
5. The Riptide of Your Parental Identitiy
6. The Riptide of Your Teen's Identity
7. The Riptide of Accountability
Part 3: Allowing Your Teen to Sink in Deep Waters (Sinking is not Drowning)
8. Make the Water Deep: By Differentiating Privileges and Rights
9. Make the Water Deeper: By Attaching Priviliges to Respectful and Responsible Choices
10. Make the Water Deepest: By Identifying Respectful and Responsible Attitudes
11. Develop Your Plan to Shepherd Your Teen into Deep Water
Part 4: Our Story - "You Have Made Him Glad with the Joy of Your Presence"
12. Deep, Deeper, and Deepest Water in Our Household
13. What We Are Learning from Our Pilgrimage with an Angry teen
Endorsements
"This book opens up a whole new universe of parenting that finds its hope and practical direction in the glory, presence, promises, and grace of God. When you rest in these things, you can weather the storm of dealing with a rebellious teenager while responding in radically new ways to the trouble that God alone is able to still." - Paul David Tripp
"Rick Horne has crafted a book full of solid biblical advice and firm compassion. he counsels us neither to negelct nor to be overwhelmed by our teens, but to confront their decisions and conduct with fairness and consistency. I highly recommend this for any parent who wants to apply God-honoring, biblical discipline when dealing with an angry teen." - Rev. Dr. Don L. Davis